Rule #1: Be confident, but not obnoxious. Women like confident men, but they don't usually appreciate men who gloat over money, looks, prowess, or material objects. If you have it, they can see it.
Rule #2: Have a sense of humor. Most women love men who can make them laugh; life is too short to be serious all the time.
Rule #3: Keep it clean. We are talking about hygiene here. While there are women who appreciate the grungy greasy look, most women like men who smell good and look clean. Don't overdo it on the cologne, though.
Rule #4: Ask questions, but not too many. It is important to establish respectful boundaries. You can ask them how they are feeling, or how their day went; steer clear of personal questions unless it is applicable to the situation.
Rule #5: Talk about your family, unless family is a touchy subject with you. If you have sisters, brothers, and your parents are still married, work them into the conversation. Knowing that you come from a stable family can be very impressive to some women. It makes them feel safe.
Rule #6: Do not speak badly of your ex-girlfriends. This tells more about you than it does about them. Few women find this attractive.
Rule #7: Keep your eyes on the face. Men who look at women like eye candy rarely impress girls.
Rule #8: Show interest in what she is saying, even if it is boring; never interrupt. One of the best ways to impress girls is to make them feel important. Paying attention to them usually does the trick.
Rule #9: Do not be overly emotional. It is important to be sensitive, but sensitive is not the same as emotional. Being caring and compassionate conveys an attractive sensitivity; crying at a girl movie on a first date does not impress girls.
Rule #10: Call the next day, not three days later. It does not impress girls to wonder if you are thinking about them; they want to know if you are thinking about them. Make a call just to say hello. Though it is usually best to keep it short and sweet, try to make the conversation natural. If she seems to want to talk longer, this is okay.
Rule #2: Have a sense of humor. Most women love men who can make them laugh; life is too short to be serious all the time.
Rule #3: Keep it clean. We are talking about hygiene here. While there are women who appreciate the grungy greasy look, most women like men who smell good and look clean. Don't overdo it on the cologne, though.
Rule #4: Ask questions, but not too many. It is important to establish respectful boundaries. You can ask them how they are feeling, or how their day went; steer clear of personal questions unless it is applicable to the situation.
Rule #5: Talk about your family, unless family is a touchy subject with you. If you have sisters, brothers, and your parents are still married, work them into the conversation. Knowing that you come from a stable family can be very impressive to some women. It makes them feel safe.
Rule #6: Do not speak badly of your ex-girlfriends. This tells more about you than it does about them. Few women find this attractive.
Rule #7: Keep your eyes on the face. Men who look at women like eye candy rarely impress girls.
Rule #8: Show interest in what she is saying, even if it is boring; never interrupt. One of the best ways to impress girls is to make them feel important. Paying attention to them usually does the trick.
Rule #9: Do not be overly emotional. It is important to be sensitive, but sensitive is not the same as emotional. Being caring and compassionate conveys an attractive sensitivity; crying at a girl movie on a first date does not impress girls.
Rule #10: Call the next day, not three days later. It does not impress girls to wonder if you are thinking about them; they want to know if you are thinking about them. Make a call just to say hello. Though it is usually best to keep it short and sweet, try to make the conversation natural. If she seems to want to talk longer, this is okay.
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